COMMUNICATIONDays to result

Lip Pursing

Holding back information

Problem it solves

poor communication

Best for

Detecting deception and emotions

Not ideal for

Building trust and rapport

Overview

Why this framework exists

Lip pursing can indicate that someone is holding back information or unhappy with the current situation.

Core principles

3 total
  1. Body language can be involuntary and reveal true emotions and intentions.
  2. Lip pursing can indicate holding back information or unhappiness.
  3. Being aware of these cues can help detect deception and emotions.

Steps

2 steps
  1. Observe Body Language
    Pay attention to the person's body language, particularly their lips, to detect potential lip pursing.
    Pro tipLook for inconsistencies between verbal and nonverbal cues.
    WarningBe cautious not to misinterpret cultural or personal differences in body language.
  2. Contextualize the Behavior
    Consider the context and potential reasons for the lip pursing, such as holding back information or unhappiness.
    Pro tipTake into account the person's baseline behavior and any changes that may indicate deception.
    WarningAvoid making assumptions or jumping to conclusions based on a single cue.

Checklist

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Examples

1 cases
Detecting Deception in a Conversation

A person exhibits lip pursing when asked about a sensitive topic, potentially indicating holding back information.

OutcomeThe conversation partner becomes aware of the potential deception and adjusts their approach.

Common mistakes

2 traps
Misinterpreting Cultural Differences
Failing to consider cultural or personal differences in body language can lead to incorrect assumptions about deception and emotions.
Overreliance on a Single Cue
Relying too heavily on a single body language cue, such as lip pursing, can lead to false positives or false negatives.

Origin story

How this framework came to be

The concept of lip pursing is rooted in the idea that our body language can betray our true emotions and intentions, even when we try to hide them.

Source

Traced to primary
Source · BOOK
Human Lie Detection and Body Language 101
Vanessa Edwards · 2013
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