paradox

Trying less at the right things often produces better results

Stop chasing happiness to find it—pursue meaningful struggle instead

Make room for both striving and self-acceptance by scheduling practices for each

Embrace both extremes simultaneously instead of choosing between them - reject false dichotomies to build enduring greatness

Short-circuit anxiety by thanking it instead of fighting it

The attraction to men with Dark Triad traits

Balance opposing forces. Discipline creates freedom. Leadership demands navigating paradox.