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Social Media Use Framework

Mindful social media use

Problem it solves

inability to maintain present-moment awareness and emotional balance

Best for

Individuals struggling with social media addiction or negative impacts on mental health

Not ideal for

Those who are not active on social media or do not experience negative effects

Overview

Why this framework exists

The Social Media Use Framework provides guidelines for healthy social media use, including being mindful of one's mental state when using social media, avoiding use before bed, and understanding how social media can impact self-perception and relationships.

Core principles

3 total
  1. Be aware of your mental state when using social media
  2. Avoid using social media before bed
  3. Understand how social media can impact self-perception and relationships

Steps

3 steps
  1. Assess your mental state
    Before using social media, take a moment to assess your mental state. Are you feeling anxious, stressed, or vulnerable? If so, it may be best to avoid using social media or take a break.
    Pro tipTake a few deep breaths and engage in a relaxing activity before using social media
    WarningUsing social media when feeling vulnerable can exacerbate negative emotions
  2. Set boundaries
    Establish boundaries around your social media use, such as avoiding use before bed or setting time limits
    Pro tipUse website blockers or apps that track and limit social media use
    WarningExcessive social media use can negatively impact sleep and relationships
  3. Practice self-compassion
    Be kind and compassionate towards yourself when using social media. Avoid comparing yourself to others or engaging in negative self-talk
    Pro tipFollow accounts that promote positivity and self-acceptance
    WarningComparing oneself to others on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem

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Examples

2 cases
Reducing social media use before bed

A person who normally spends hours scrolling through social media before bed starts setting a boundary of no social media use after 10 PM. As a result, they experience improved sleep quality and reduced stress

OutcomeImproved sleep quality and reduced stress
Practicing self-compassion on social media

A person who tends to compare themselves to others on social media starts following accounts that promote positivity and self-acceptance. As a result, they experience increased self-esteem and reduced feelings of inadequacy

OutcomeIncreased self-esteem and reduced feelings of inadequacy

Common mistakes

3 traps
Using social media as a form of emotional regulation
Using social media to cope with negative emotions can exacerbate problems and create a cycle of addiction
Comparing oneself to others on social media
Comparing oneself to others on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem
Not setting boundaries around social media use
Failing to set boundaries around social media use can lead to excessive use and negative impacts on mental health and relationships

Origin story

How this framework came to be

The framework is based on research and clinical experience, highlighting the importance of responsible social media use for maintaining good mental health and relationships.

Source

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Source · PODCAST
Unlearn Negative Thoughts & Behaviors Patterns | Dr. Alok Kanojia (Healthy Gamer)
Andrew Huberman · 2026
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