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The Goodness Framework

Appeal to goodness to influence

Problem it solves

limiting beliefs

Best for

Building relationships, influencing others

Not ideal for

Short-term gains, manipulative purposes

Overview

Why this framework exists

The Goodness Framework is about appealing to the goodness of others, and making them feel like they are doing something positive and altruistic. This can be achieved by framing requests as opportunities to help others, and by emphasizing the positive impact of their actions.

Core principles

3 total
  1. People are more likely to be influenced by someone who appeals to their goodness.
  2. Framing requests as opportunities to help others can increase the likelihood of compliance.
  3. Emphasizing the positive impact of others' actions can increase their motivation and engagement.

Steps

3 steps
  1. Frame requests as opportunities to help others
    Frame requests as opportunities to help others, and emphasize the positive impact of their actions.
    Pro tipUse positive and supportive language to encourage the other person to take action.
    WarningAvoid being too pushy or aggressive, as this can create discomfort and mistrust.
  2. Emphasize the positive impact of others' actions
    Emphasize the positive impact of others' actions, and make them feel like they are doing something good.
    Pro tipUse positive and supportive language to encourage the other person to take action.
    WarningAvoid being too critical or dismissive, as this can create discomfort and mistrust.
  3. Appeal to goodness
    Appeal to the goodness of others, and make them feel like they are doing something positive and altruistic.
    Pro tipUse positive and supportive language to encourage the other person to take action.
    WarningAvoid being too insincere or manipulative, as this can create discomfort and mistrust.

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Examples

2 cases
Marie de Vionnet's influence on others

Marie de Vionnet uses her goodness to influence others and achieve her goals.

OutcomeShe is able to build a strong network of allies and supporters, and is able to achieve her goals through her ability to connect with others.
Pierre-Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais' influence on King Louis XVI

Pierre-Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais uses the Goodness Framework to influence King Louis XVI, making him feel like he is doing something positive and altruistic.

OutcomeKing Louis XVI is motivated to take action, and Beaumarchais is able to achieve his goals.

Common mistakes

3 traps
Being too pushy or aggressive
This can create discomfort and mistrust, and may lead to the other person becoming defensive or resistant to influence.
Not being sincere or genuine
If you are not sincere or genuine in your approach, the other person may see through your attempts to influence them and become resistant.
Not emphasizing the positive impact of others' actions
If you do not emphasize the positive impact of others' actions, they may feel undervalued and less motivated to take action.

Origin story

How this framework came to be

This framework is inspired by the character of Marie de Vionnet, who uses her goodness to influence others and achieve her goals.

Source

Traced to primary
Source · BOOK
Robert Greene 2 Books Collection Set (The Laws of Human
Robert Greene · 2018
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