We obey authority automatically, often responding to its symbols rather than its genuine expertise
Influence: Science and Practice · Robert B. Cialdini
Give first to obligate; the rule runs deeper than liking, culture, or rational self-interest.
Influence: Science and Practice · Robert B. Cialdini
Set a public countdown on unacceptable behavior, then enforce without exception.
Spencer Pratt on Fixing LA: Wildfires, Homelessness, Corruption & the Fight to Take It Back — All-In Podcast · All-In Podcast
Shame, not greed or laziness, is the most common destroyer of built wealth.
Therapist Explains: How to Fix Your Money Issues · Vicky Reynal
Democracies sustain wars they were attacked into; wars of choice erode politically until withdrawal
The Iran War Expert: I Simulated The Iran War for 20 Years. Here's What Happens Next · Robert Pape
Eliminating lying as a behavior has outsized second-order effects on reputation and clarity
WARNING: ChatGPT Could Be The Start Of The End! · Sam Harris
Smart people thinking you're crazy is the moat signal, not a red flag
Reid Hoffman, LinkedIn Founder: It's Time To Quit Your Job When You Feel This! · Reid Hoffman
Get through to anyone by making them feel heard before attempting to influence them
Just Listen · Mark Goulston
Protect minority perspectives and dissenting voices from the crushing conformity of democratic consensus
Democracy in America · Alexis de Tocqueville
Identify the protective behaviors that once served you but now hold you back
Brene Brown - Striving versus Self-Acceptance, Saving Marriages, and More · Brene Brown
Shift organizational focus from the absence of failure to the pursuit of greatness
Turn the Ship Around!: A True Story of Turning Followers Into Leaders · L. David Marquet
Avoiding disease through disgust
Evolutionary Psychology The New Science of the Mind, - David M Buss · Unknown
Create powerful work by hiding the mechanics from the audience
Interviews with the Masters: A Companion to Robert Greene’s Mastery · Robert Greene
Five character flaws that guarantee defeat regardless of other advantages
The Art of War · Sun Tzu
Free your mind's working memory to unlock creativity and reduce stress
Ready for Anything: 52 Productivity Principles for Getting Things Done · David Allen
Surface the hidden thoughts sabotaging your conversations
The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook · Peter Senge
Fear as a defense mechanism
When Men Behave Badly The Hidden Roots of Sexual · David M Buss
Cultivate agency and gratitude for healthy relationships
Dr. Paul Conti: How to Build and Maintain Healthy Relationships | Huberman Lab Guest Series · Andrew Huberman
Understand your defenses
Dr. Paul Conti: How to Improve Your Mental Health | Huberman Lab Guest Series · Andrew Huberman
Understand yourself
Dr. Paul Conti: How to Improve Your Mental Health | Huberman Lab Guest Series · Andrew Huberman
The longest journey is from your head to your heart.
Transform Pain & Trauma Into Creative Expression | David Choe · Andrew Huberman
Use language that matches the magnitude of your experience to prevent trauma from rooting into th...
Mental Health Toolkit: Tools to Bolster Your Mood & Mental Health · Andrew Huberman
Shift from self-focused achievement to purpose-driven contribution under pressure
The Upside of Stress · Kelly McGonigal
Systematically find undervalued stocks through quantitative screening and special situations
The Intelligent Investor · Benjamin Graham
A quantitative checklist to screen for financially sound, fairly priced stocks
The Intelligent Investor · Benjamin Graham
Maintain a fixed stock-bond split and rebalance when it drifts beyond thresholds
The Intelligent Investor · Benjamin Graham
Win arguments by finding common ground and leading with your few strongest points
Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know · Adam Grant
Reduce suffering by expecting and accepting pain rather than fighting it
Option B · Sheryl Sandberg
Peer-driven candid feedback that solves creative problems without authority to mandate
Creativity, Inc. · Ed Catmull & Amy Wallace
Replace judgment with understanding to disarm defensiveness and build trust
How to Win Friends and Influence People · Dale Carnegie
Build durable emotional associations that justify premium pricing for identical offerings
7 Powers · Hamilton Helmer
Recognize and neutralize the numbers that silently steer your judgments
Thinking, Fast and Slow · Daniel Kahneman
Use a deep, slow, downward-inflecting voice to project calm authority and trigger trust without triggering defensiveness.
Never Split the Difference · Chris Voss
List every terrible thing your counterpart could say about you and say it first to defuse negative dynamics before they take root.
Never Split the Difference · Chris Voss