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The Be Your Own Process Referee Framework

Diagnose, Describe, Propose

Problem it solves

poor communication

Best for

Individuals who want to improve their communication skills and create a more constructive environment for feedback conversations

Not ideal for

Those who are not open to feedback or are resistant to change

Overview

Why this framework exists

This framework helps individuals take ownership of the feedback process and create a more constructive environment for conversations. It provides a structured approach to diagnosing, describing, and proposing solutions.

Core principles

3 total
  1. Diagnose the issue or problem
  2. Describe the impact and consequences
  3. Propose solutions and alternatives

Steps

3 steps
  1. Diagnose the Issue
    Diagnose the issue or problem that needs to be addressed.
    Pro tipUse open-ended questions to gather more information.
    WarningAvoid making assumptions or jumping to conclusions.
  2. Describe the Impact
    Describe the impact and consequences of the issue or problem.
    Pro tipUse specific examples and data to illustrate the impact.
    WarningAvoid being too vague or general.
  3. Propose Solutions
    Propose solutions and alternatives to address the issue or problem.
    Pro tipUse collaborative language and involve the other person in the solution-finding process.
    WarningAvoid imposing your own solution or being too prescriptive.

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Examples

2 cases
Example 1

John used the Be Your Own Process Referee Framework to diagnose the issue of poor communication in his team, describe the impact on productivity, and propose solutions to improve communication.

OutcomeThe team's communication improved, and productivity increased.
Example 2

Sarah used the framework to diagnose the issue of lack of feedback in her organization, describe the impact on employee engagement, and propose solutions to improve feedback mechanisms.

OutcomeThe organization's feedback mechanisms improved, and employee engagement increased.

Common mistakes

3 traps
Failing to Diagnose
Failing to diagnose the issue or problem can lead to ineffective solutions and a lack of progress.
Failing to Describe
Failing to describe the impact and consequences can lead to a lack of understanding and empathy.
Failing to Propose
Failing to propose solutions and alternatives can lead to a lack of progress and stagnation.

Origin story

How this framework came to be

The authors developed this framework based on their research and experience in communication and feedback. They recognized the importance of creating a safe and constructive environment for feedback conversations.

Source

Traced to primary
Source · BOOK
Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well
Douglas Stone · 2014
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