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The Three Types of Feedback Framework

Evaluation, Coaching, Appreciation

Problem it solves

poor communication

Best for

Individuals and organizations seeking to improve their feedback culture

Not ideal for

Those who are not open to receiving feedback or are resistant to change

Overview

Why this framework exists

The book introduces the concept of three types of feedback: evaluation, coaching, and appreciation. Evaluation is about assessing performance, coaching is about improving skills, and appreciation is about recognizing effort. The framework highlights the importance of understanding the purpose of feedback and the need for all three types to be present in a healthy feedback culture.

Core principles

3 total
  1. Feedback is not just about criticism or praise, but about helping individuals grow and improve.
  2. Evaluation, coaching, and appreciation are three distinct types of feedback that serve different purposes.
  3. A healthy feedback culture requires all three types of feedback to be present.

Steps

4 steps
  1. Identify the Purpose of Feedback
    Determine whether the feedback is intended to evaluate, coach, or appreciate. This will help you understand the context and respond accordingly.
    Pro tipBe aware of your own biases and assumptions when giving or receiving feedback.
    WarningFailing to understand the purpose of feedback can lead to miscommunication and ineffective feedback.
  2. Use Evaluation to Assess Performance
    Use evaluation to assess performance and provide feedback that is specific, objective, and actionable. This will help individuals understand their strengths and weaknesses and make improvements.
    Pro tipUse data and evidence to support your evaluation.
    WarningEvaluation can be perceived as critical or judgmental if not delivered carefully.
  3. Use Coaching to Improve Skills
    Use coaching to help individuals improve their skills and performance. This involves providing guidance, support, and feedback that is specific, timely, and actionable.
    Pro tipFocus on the behavior or skill that needs improvement, rather than making a personal attack.
    WarningCoaching can be time-consuming and requires a significant investment of time and effort.
  4. Use Appreciation to Recognize Effort
    Use appreciation to recognize and appreciate the effort and hard work that individuals put into their tasks and responsibilities. This can be done through verbal or non-verbal means, such as a thank-you note or a public recognition.
    Pro tipBe sincere and genuine in your appreciation.
    WarningAppreciation can be perceived as insincere or manipulative if not delivered authentically.

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Examples

2 cases
Luke's Experience on America's Got Talent

Luke's experience on America's Got Talent highlights the importance of understanding the purpose of feedback. The judges' feedback was intended to entertain the audience, rather than provide constructive feedback to Luke.

OutcomeLuke learned to distinguish between feedback that is intended to be constructive and feedback that is intended to entertain or criticize.
April, Cody, and Evelyn's Experience with Donald

April, Cody, and Evelyn's experience with Donald highlights the importance of providing feedback that is specific, timely, and actionable. Donald's feedback was not tailored to their individual needs and expectations, leading to confusion and frustration.

OutcomeThe experience highlights the need for feedback to be tailored to the individual's needs and expectations.

Common mistakes

3 traps
Failing to Understand the Purpose of Feedback
Failing to understand the purpose of feedback can lead to miscommunication and ineffective feedback.
Not Providing Specific and Actionable Feedback
Not providing specific and actionable feedback can lead to confusion and frustration.
Not Being Sincere and Genuine in Appreciation
Not being sincere and genuine in appreciation can lead to perceptions of insincerity or manipulation.

Origin story

How this framework came to be

The framework is based on the author's research and experience in the field of communication and feedback. The concept of the three types of feedback is rooted in the idea that feedback is not just about criticism or praise, but about helping individuals grow and improve.

Source

Traced to primary
Source · BOOK
Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well
Douglas Stone · 2014
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